The month of April was Organ Donation Awareness Month, a timely reminder to visit Donate Life and register as an organ and tissue donor. While four in five Australians support organ and tissue donation, only around one in three are registered to be a donor on the Australian Organ Donor Register (AODR).With this in mind, have a read of an article about Hay locals Kim and Wayne Wooding, and Wayne’s struggle to find a kidney donor, originally published in The Riverine Grazier in 2023. Something unimaginable happened to Kim and Wayne Wooding. A gift the couple call ‘better than winning the lottery’ and something that they were starting to fear would never happen, happened. He was granted a new lease on life with a kidney. Wayne initially received a call on Anzac Day, while watching the Anzac Day match. Kym was taking five minutes of respite at Bunnings on the way home from work, looking at flowers. “I thought he was joking,” she told the Grazier with a laugh. “He said to me, look, would I be at home with one of the best matches of the year on pause, calling you to make a prank, and then I knew it was real.” She shot out of Bunnings like a madwoman. It was a case of heading to Melbourne as soon as you can. Devastatingly, once all of the effort was made to do what needed to be done in order for the couple to make it to Melbourne for surgery, it was discovered that the proposed donor kidney had an aneurysm and could not be used. The medical crew reassured the couple that they would expect to see him back soon. “They advised us that they were currently performing three to five kidney transplants per week,” Kym remarked. “We were taken aback; we could not believe that it was that many.” Three weeks to the day, another call came through. They began the same preparations to return to surgery on May 17. After the phone call, Wayne dialysed, in order to make the journey. They shot off to Melbourne, and Wayne was wheeled into surgery at 3 pm, for a 4 pm start. “He has never had such a good surgery,” Kym said. “He recovered so well. Since the time he woke up, it’s just been a whole new ball game; the change was instantly noticeable.” The pair are still happily reeling at the second chance the family has been given. “He’s got his independence back, he is no longer tethered to a machine three times a day for dialysis,” Kym said. The couple were both working throughout the whole waiting game, Kym as a nurse, and Wayne as a long-haul truck driver, working full time, and undergoing nocturnal dialysis. Post operation life currently comprises of 7.30 am blood tests, then off to the clinic to see a renal specialist or a nurse, who checks him over, and review the blood tests, particularly monitoring if the medication is working as it should, or needs adjusting. Wayne will gradually taper off the doctor’s visits pending on progress, and will be able to go home to Albury Wodonga, where the family moved six years ago. “He is taking 43 tablets per day,” Kym said.“Some are anti-rejection tablets, some anti infection, and other general medications.” They say it all still is quite surreal, and are still coming to terms with the fact that it has actually, finally happened. When asked how they did it, coping day in day out with all the tribulations and setbacks, and still functioned, the couple are straight forward. “It’s just what you do,” Kym said. “You get into a routine, accept things as the new reality, and get on with it. “A lot of the time it has been work sleep work repeat, work all day, work all night. We both manage, it’s just one of those things.” “If you want to go forward in life, you have to find a way,” Wayne added. “Financially, physically. I have often thought about giving up, and things get so hard, but you push through.” “It can be exhausting, restricting and life-altering,” Kim continues. “We have missed out on a lot of family events, and other experiences such as holidays. “We hadn’t had Christmas with Wayne’s family in over six years. We had it with them last year, but it took seven months of me pushing and organising to be able to get a dialysis chair.” Add to that the stress and fear of COVID, and it seems like it was the perfect storm in the worst way. The couple’s children, Corrine, 20 and Jake, 12 have been stoic and understanding. “They have both dealt with it very well, they have both grown up fairly well with it,” Kym said. “Jake has only started high school, and did comment that he wanted to stay with us the last visit, and will definitely be visiting soon, and school holidays will be here soon.” “You don’t actually realise how sick you were until after the transplant,” Wayne said. “To be able to have a wander, and get some fitness in, I have felt immediately better, ever since I woke up from the surgery.” “He is a new man, I have to run to keep up with him,” Kym happily added. The couple are staying at Emorgo House for the entirety of Wayne’s post-operative stay in Melbourne. Part of Kidney Health Australia, transplant recipients and other kidney related patients and their families are housed there when they need it, to take away the financial burden of having to find accommodation. Life will be less restrictive now, post-trans plant. Wayne will have to wear a mask, and take steps to protect from illnesses and respiratory infections. The next five years or more will be full of regular doctors’ appointments, tests, taking medications when he needs to and at the correct times. At the end of the day, they will be able to get on with life, something that they probably could not be able to do with certainty for the longest time. Wayne’s kidney function is only rising, with it currently sitting at 52 per cent. Kym and Wayne are immeasurably grateful for the sacrifice that their donor made. They will have an opportunity to write to the donor’s family and are going to do that as soon as possible. The statistic on organ donation is still dire. You need to register at Donate Life in order to become a donor these days, the ticked box on the driver’s license is no longer enough. Additionally, after you pass, your family can override your choice. Hard, uncomfortable talks should be had with your family, so that they are clear about your intentions once you pass on. So many people who wanted to donate end up not being able to, for a variety of reasons. There are around 1,800 Australians waitlisted for a transplant and around 14,000 additional people on dialysis, some who may eventually need a kidney transplant. What qualifies a person to become a donor is highly specific, so add to that the number of people who are not registered to be donors, and it is the proverbial needle in the haystack. As tragic as the passing of anyone may be, knowing that you have saved and enriched the lives of countless others, would be a magnificent accomplishment. Visit Donate Life today to register as an organ and tissue donor - https://www.donatelife.gov.au/register-donor-today